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Arthur
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Sex, Love & Dharma |
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Many people treat love as
a noun, as a thing' that can be felt, bartered, given,
withheld, sought after, attained and lost from a 'love
supplier' outside ourselves. This kind of loving
is fraught with expectations in which we are always
looking to get love, as if were a precious and limited
commodity. Driven by lonliness
and a sense of lack we walk around like addicts, looking
to be 'hooked' up to this incredible drug called love.
It's hard to sustain a long-term
relationship if we are looking outside ourselves for
love. Most of the decisions we make are based on a cocktail
of fear, desire, lonliness and projection. (all which
are a result of our conditioning). When we are operating
out of our conditioning, we often end up with someone
we don't even like, yet alone love. How
do we find our true love without losing our way? How
do we rise to love after falling into it?
Our true nature is
love. It is not about seeking it, but being it. Everything
changes when we treat love as a verb in our lives. To
be loving and in loving relationship with the world
around and within us.
When we understand that the currency of love
is available all the time, supporting everything we
do, every single moment is an opportunity to give love,
and tap into the flow of it.
We all long connect to someone
in union. To love and be loved.
The bottom line is when we change how we love in the
world, we pull in a different kind of partnership.
Tune in to Straight from the Heart's "From
Longing to Belonging" to find out how.
Want to learn more: Read this article by Arthur Jeon:
"10
WAYS TO FIND LOVE WITHOUT LOSING YOUR WAY"
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