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| Jordan
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"Keeping Your Heart On" |
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'Sexual
Cunning Linguists' are comfortable discussing
sexual feelings, needs, desires and difficulties.
They are also great listeners when their partners share
sexual thoughts and feelings.
How
easy is it for you to have an honest sex talk with your
partner?
For most people, discussing
sexual problems and issues is very difficult. Honest
sex talk occurs when people feel safe in expressing
themselves. According to my guest, Jordan Paul, co-author
of Oral
Sex: Talking and Listening Your Way to Passionate Intimacy"
feeling fulfilled and safe flows from a heart connection
and conversely, feeling dissatisfied and unsafe results
from a heart disconnection. When we are heart connected
we feel compassion and are open to learning. We empathize
rather than judge and seek to listen and understand
our partner. When we are disconnected from our hearts
we feel cold, closed, angry,threatened, jealous. We
may find ourselves lecturing instead of listening and
trying to get the other person to change or worse, cutting
off all conversation.
Heart disconnection hurts us, our partner and definitely
our sex life. But, hold on, help is on the way.
When you realize that you and/or
your relationship is off-center, a commitment to return
to balance entails:
Our show is filled
with active
demonstrations to help you learn new verbal and heart
centered skills for increasing your heart connection
no matter what the issue. Successful communication about
sex can lead you and your partner to greater sexual
pleasure. This gives the term ‘oral sex’
a whole different meaning.
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Jordan Paul is a noted
author, psychotherapist, college
professor, business consultant,
and motivational speaker. Our
show together is based on Jordan’s
latest book" Oral
Sex: Talking and Listening Your
Way to Passionate Intimacy"
which is about helping couples
create passionate and fulfilling
sex by learning to talk and
listen with a “heart on.”
Dr. Paul is author of"Becoming
Your Own Hero" and
co-author of the national best-seller,
"Do
I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved
by You?" As a psychotherapist,
Dr. Paul specialized in helping
couples resolve sexual and relationship
issues and developed an innovative
form of short-term therapy which
he calls' Fulfillment Coaching.'
Jordan has appeared on numerous
radio and television shows including
Donahue and Sonya Live as a
guest expert, and on the ABC
radio network as a talk show
host. For more information,
please visit his website @
http://oralsexthebook.com
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