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"Born for Love: Reflections on Loving"

"Loving Each Other"

"Love"

"Living, Loving, Learning"

Leo Buscaglia

 

"How to Make Love All the Time"
 

"Real Moments"

"Real Moments for Lovers"

Dr. Barbara DeAngelis

 

"Forgiveness"

"Love Is Letting Go of Fear"

Gerald Jampolsky

"The Future of Love: The Power of Soul in Intimate Relationships"

"A Garland of Love"
"Heart and Soul"

"Finding True Love"

Daphne Rose Kingma

"Embracing the Beloved: Relationship as a Path of Awakening"

Stephen and Ondrea Levine

"Simple Loving"

Janet Luhrs

"The Couple's Comfort Book: A Creative Guide for Renewing Passion, Pleasure, & Commitment"

Jennifer Louden

"Loving Relationships: The Secrets of a Great Relationship"

"I Deserve Love"

Sondra Ray

"If Life is a Game, These are the Rules"

Cherie Carter Scott

"A Return to Love"
"Illuminata"

Marianne Williamson

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We Can All Make A Difference In Each Other's Lives

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As the sun illuminates the moon and the stars,
so let us illumine
one another.

Anonymous

Dear Straight from the Hearter,

Once in a while I get an email which touches me to the core. I am reprinting this story here because no matter how often I read it, my heart bursts open and tears fill my eyes. It reminds me of how each of us has the capacity to truly make a difference in another's life. Whether we are giving to another or receiving from another, the truth is, just by participating in the reciprocal act of kindness, we can change each other's lives. Please read this story below to see what I mean.

 

THE PERFUME

As she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of school she told the children an untruth. Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved them all the same. However, that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.

Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he did not play well
with the other children, that his clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath. In addition, Teddy could be unpleasant. It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then putting a big "F" at the top of his papers.

At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last. However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.

Teddy's first grade teacher wrote, “Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and has good manners... he is a joy to be around."

His second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle."

His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best, but his father doesn't show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."

Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and he sometimes sleeps in class."

By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when her students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy's. His present was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper that he got from a grocery bag. Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other presents. Some of the children started to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing, and a bottle that was one-quarter full of perfume. But she stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist.

Teddy Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson,
today you smelled just like my Mom used to." After the children left, she cried for at least an hour.

On that very day, she quit teaching reading, writing and arithmetic. Instead, she began to teach children.

Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy. As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end of the year Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the class and, despite her lie that she would love all the children the same, Teddy became one of her teacher's pets."

A year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling her that she was still the best
teacher he ever had in his whole life. Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy.
He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class, and she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.

Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things had been tough at times,
he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the highest
of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favorite teacher he had ever had
in his whole life.

Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained that after
he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a little further. The letter explained that
she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was a little longer....
The letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, MD.

The story does not end there. You see, there was yet another letter that spring. Teddy said
he had met this girl and was going to be married. He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit at the wedding in the place that was usually reserved for the mother of the groom.

Of course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She wore that bracelet, the one with several
rhinestones missing. Moreover, she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered
his mother wearing on their last Christmas together. They hugged each other, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear, "Thank you Mrs. Thompson for believing in me. Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing me that I could make a difference."

Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said, "Teddy, you have it all wrong.
You were the one who taught me that I could make a difference. I didn't know how to teach until I met you.
"

So, are the tears streaming yet? Mine are! It's amazing how a little love can go a long way.

Sending you lots of love,

Sheri



BOOKS 
If you are interested in this topic here's some books and authors you might like: (Click on Author's Name to find out about these books and more.)
   
"Born for Love: Reflections on Loving"
"Loving Each Other"
"Love"
"Living, Loving, Learning"
Leo Buscaglia
"How to Make Love All the Time" 
"Real Moments"
"Real Moments for Lovers"
Dr. Barbara DeAngelis
"Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples"
"Keeping the Love You Find: A Guide for Singles"
Harville Hendrix, Ph.D.
"Forgiveness"
"Love Is Letting Go of Fear"
Gerald Jampolsky
"The Future of Love: The Power of Soul in Intimate Relationships"
"A Garland of Love"
"Heart and Soul"
"Finding True Love"
Daphne Rose Kingma
"Embracing the Beloved: Relationship as a Path of Awakening" Stephen and Ondrea Levine
"Simple Loving" Janet Luhrs
The Couple's Comfort Book: A Creative Guide for Renewing Passion, Pleasure, & Commitment" Jennifer Louden
"Loving Relationships: The Secrets of a Great Relationship"
"I Deserve Love"
Sondra Ray
"If Life is a Game, These are the Rules" Cherie Carter Scott
"A Return to Love" Marianne Williamson
   
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