| Are you a Protector?
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| As your partner
attempts to get closer to you, do you feel
guarded, threatened or trapped? |
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| When your relationship gets too close
or too confrontational, do you tend to quickly
pull away and withdraw or angrily push away
in order to get space? |
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| Do you think your partner is too needy
and overly emotional and the one with the
problems? |
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| Do you feel that you can't rely on your
partner, only on yourself? |
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| Do you find yourself blocking affection
by becoming hyperrational and detached? |
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| Do outside activities such as work, friends,
hobbies keep you very busy and under-involved
in your relationship? |
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| Do you find it difficult to be emotionally
present and spontaneous? |
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| When it comes to plans, are you a last
minute kind of person? |
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| Do you feel suffocated in relationships? |
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| Do you feel pressured or resentful when
you 'should' or 'have to' give? |
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| Do you dislike being told what to do? |
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| Do you have trouble making decisions or
do you make unilateral decisions? |
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